Anonymous asked: Hi Madison. I started modelling not too long ago with a good agency (I'm 14 by the way) and I'm finding it difficult. I think you're a great, beautiful, confident model and I was wondering you opinion on how you deal with the modelling world and what you do to keep your hopes up?
Hi!!
First off, good for you!! Just being placed with an agency is a really amazing accomplishment, and you should be SO proud of yourself. Not many people have the ability to do what we do!
Second, THANK YOU. Speaking to someone who understands the industry, I can’t tell you how much that praise means. You made me smile!!
In terms of staying positive, just be happy to HAVE this opportunity and really make the most of what you do with it. It can certainly be hard, and you are NOT the only model with slow days, weeks, or months. We can’t be busy all of the time, and we also can’t possibly be right for every job. These are things we simply cannot control. If a client was looking for a blue eyed, blond with super-short hair, and you’re asian with hazel eyes…there is NO WAY you could change! I promise you, don’t ever blame yourself or question your value because you were turned down for a job. If you do this your confidence will plummet, and-trust me-a casting director will notice that next time.
I also think it’s important to view being a model as something that you do…not as defining who you are. I absolutely LOVE modelling, it is something I feel so blessed to be doing. However, I know that it isn’t going to last forever, and that I need to keep on living my life outside of this industry. Keep your friends close, love those simple, happy moments, and remember who you are and WHY you want to be doing this. If you ever lose sight of that, or the cons begin outweighing the pros…re-evaluate your decision as a model.
Fourteen is a good age to start dipping your toes into the modelling world, but it is pretty young in the grand scheme of things. Because of this, it will be pretty hard to start booking jobs, so don’t fret!! Build your portfolio, learn about the industry, but enjoy your childhood. Then when you’re 16 and able to do more in fashion, you’ll knock ‘em dead!! Or, be able to make an educated decision on what you want to do. That’s what it comes down to, in the end!!!
I know it can sometimes be hard to start viewing yourself as a product instead of a person, which can be what happens in fashion. My advice on this? Don’t. You need to love your body, love that you get to be here, love that your future is limitless. Just ENJOY what you’re given, don’t question what you’re not, and do the best you can. People will start noticing just how special you are:)
Ps- you’re destined for great things. Don’t ever think you’re not!!
xoxo
CGG